When you and your husband differ on how to deal with a situation concerning your children, it is an annoying state of affairs for the kids. Being sharp, they tend to use one close relative alongside the other to get what they want.
WHAT YOU CAN DO: Discuss everything about the kids with a peaceful mind with your husband. Listen to what he has to say and why he is making convinced rules. Encourage him of your view as you would do in your office to get the final answer to a problem. Don’t give the children a feeling that they can play one parent against the other. Even if you have serious differences with your husband, try to be ‘one’ where the kids are concerned. Be firm but loving when a revolving point comes in the lives of the children or the family as a whole. As they grow, keep them in the loop about family deeds, finances and your own ambitions, and share life in the truest manner with them. Say what you expect of them proud of you and themselves so that they become good populace. Show kindness, charity and apprehension about the world around you so that they see this constantly as an asset in life.
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